# negotiation

This skill prepares and runs negotiations with tactical empathy, calibrated questions, and the Ackerman method. Use it for objections, pricing, and difficult terms.

- skill · `type=skill` · Claude Code, Codex, Cursor, GitHub Copilot, Gemini CLI, OpenCode · 5800 installs · ★ 2508
- Author: wondelai
- License: MIT · policy=mirror · the beginning of the file is at the end of this page
- Source: https://github.com/wondelai/skills/tree/HEAD/negotiation/SKILL.md
- Updated: 2026-09-10
- HTML: https://affpapa.org/en/nevibecode/skills/negotiation

## What it does

The skill treats negotiation as a discovery process. It guides tactical empathy, mirroring, emotion labeling, and open questions that start with "How" or "What". It also covers accusation audits, Black Swan discovery, and the "That's Right" technique. Use those patterns when discussing salary, contract terms, vendor pricing, or a difficult conversation.

A diagnostic score reaches 10/10 by checking preparation, BATNA, spoken labels, and surfaced Black Swans. The skill reports the current score and the gaps that remain. Check your BATNA before using the framework in a live dispute, because its core approach puts discovery ahead of pressure.

## Install

### Claude Code (native platform)

1. **Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add wondelai/skills --skill negotiation -a claude-code
```

2. **Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `~/.claude/skills/negotiation/SKILL.md` — Copy the whole skill folder; for one project use .claude/skills/negotiation/

### Codex

1. **Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add wondelai/skills --skill negotiation -a codex
```

2. **Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `.agents/skills/negotiation/SKILL.md` — For all projects use ~/.agents/skills/

### Cursor

1. **Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add wondelai/skills --skill negotiation -a cursor
```

2. **Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `.cursor/skills/negotiation/SKILL.md` — Cursor also reads .agents/skills/ and .claude/skills/

### GitHub Copilot

1. **GitHub CLI**
```bash
gh skill install wondelai/skills negotiation
```

2. **Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `.github/skills/negotiation/SKILL.md`

### Gemini CLI

1. **Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add wondelai/skills --skill negotiation -a gemini-cli
```

2. **Platform CLI**
```bash
gemini skills install https://github.com/wondelai/skills --path negotiation
```

### Windsurf (Devin Desktop)

**Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `.devin/skills/negotiation/SKILL.md` — The legacy .windsurf/skills/ path still works

### OpenCode

**Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add wondelai/skills --skill negotiation -a opencode
```

### Claude.ai

**Claude.ai**
- Zip the folder and upload it in Settings → Capabilities → Skills

Where a file is given instead of a command, copy the files from the source to that path: https://github.com/wondelai/skills/tree/HEAD/negotiation/SKILL.md

## When to use it
- prepare a salary negotiation
- break down a pricing objection
- draft questions about contract terms
- surface a vendor's hidden interests
- score readiness for a difficult conversation

## Example prompts
- Prepare me for a salary negotiation. Run an accusation audit, define my BATNA, and draft calibrated questions.
- Break down this vendor pricing objection using mirroring and emotion labeling.
- Score my negotiation plan, show the current score, and list the gaps needed to reach 10/10.

## Source text · SKILL.md · MIT

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name: negotiation
description: 'Prepare and execute negotiations using tactical empathy, calibrated questions, and the Ackerman method. Use when the user mentions "salary negotiation", "contract terms", "handling objections", "mirroring and labeling", "difficult conversation", "deal terms", "BATNA", "anchoring", "how do I ask for a raise", "get a better deal", or "they wont budge on price". Also trigger when preparing for a vendor negotiation, resolving a pricing dispute, or navigating a high-stakes conversation where both sides need to feel heard. Covers accusation audits, Black Swan discovery, and the "Thats Right" technique. For persuasion in product and marketing, see influence-psychology.'
license: MIT
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  author: wondelai
  version: "1.5.0"
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# Negotiation

Tactical empathy-based negotiation framework from FBI hostage negotiator Chris Voss. Understand the emotional drivers behind decisions and use proven techniques to build rapport, uncover hidden information, and reach better outcomes.

## Core Principle

**People want to be understood and feel safe.** The most effective path to "yes" runs through empathy, active listening, and emotional intelligence -- not logic, arguments, or compromise. Treat every negotiation as a discovery process: your assumptions are hypotheses to test, and the other side's needs (respect, security, autonomy) matter more than their stated positions. Never split the difference -- no deal is better than a bad deal.

## Scoring

**Goal: 10/10.** Score 1 point per satisfied Quick Diagnostic row (6 rows), plus up to 4 points for execution quality: emotions labeled out loud (+1), "That's right" earned not "You're right" (+1), no "Why?" / no splitting the difference / no chasing "yes" (+1), at least one Black Swan surfaced (+1). Bands: **9-10** = audit delivered, calibrated questions and BATNA prepared, "That's right" achieved, Black Swans hunted; **5-6** = some prep but arguing the position or chasing "yes"; **<=3** = no audit, no BATNA, splitting the difference. Always state the current score and the specific gaps to reach 10/10.

## Framework

### 1. Tactical Empathy

**Core concept:** Consciously imagine yourself in the counterpart's situation, then vocalize their perspective to create trust and openness.

**Why it works:** When people feel understood, brain chemistry shifts toward trust and cooperation, short-circuiting defensive reactions. Empathy is not agreement -- you can understand their position while advocating your own.

**Key insights:**
- Before responding, ask: "What is their world like right now?"
- Articulate their situation, pressures, and fears before stating your position
- Empathy must be genuine, not performed -- people detect fakeness instantly
- Unconditional positive regard: respect them as a person regardless of disagreement
- Emotions are contagious -- stay calm and positive; slow pace enables clear thinking

**Product applications:**

| Context | Application | Example |
|---------|-------------|---------|
| **Customer support** | Acknowledge frustration before solving | "I understand this outage is affecting your team's deadline" |
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