# mom-test

Refines customer interview scripts using Mom Test principles, replacing leading questions with past-behavior facts. Useful when validating ideas without false positives.

- skill · `type=skill` · Claude Code, Codex, Cursor, GitHub Copilot, Gemini CLI, OpenCode · 5600 installs · ★ 2508
- Author: wondelai
- License: MIT · policy=mirror · the beginning of the file is at the end of this page
- Source: https://github.com/wondelai/skills/tree/HEAD/mom-test/SKILL.md
- Updated: 2026-09-10
- HTML: https://affpapa.org/en/nevibecode/skills/mom-test

## What it does

This skill keeps customer interviews grounded in actual past behavior rather than hypothetical future promises. Talking about an idea makes people polite. Once you pitch a solution, respondents switch from sharing facts to offering compliments, which gives false confidence. The skill forces you to focus on their life and past actions while letting them talk 80% of the time.

Conversation plans are scored using a 7-point diagnostic rubric. A score of 3 or less signals a hidden pitch with leading questions and opinions. The skill pinpoints failing rows and provides concrete rewrites. It also flags compliments and vague generalities like "I always do this", pushing you to deflect praise and extract historical spending or specific past incidents instead.

Feature requests receive the same scrutiny: rather than logging them as requirements, the skill digs into the past incident that prompted the request. For broader product-market fit questions, the author points to the jobs-to-be-done skill, while prototype validation is routed to design-sprint.

## Install

### Claude Code (native platform)

1. **Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add wondelai/skills --skill mom-test -a claude-code
```

2. **Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `~/.claude/skills/mom-test/SKILL.md` — Copy the whole skill folder; for one project use .claude/skills/mom-test/

### Codex

1. **Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add wondelai/skills --skill mom-test -a codex
```

2. **Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `.agents/skills/mom-test/SKILL.md` — For all projects use ~/.agents/skills/

### Cursor

1. **Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add wondelai/skills --skill mom-test -a cursor
```

2. **Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `.cursor/skills/mom-test/SKILL.md` — Cursor also reads .agents/skills/ and .claude/skills/

### GitHub Copilot

1. **GitHub CLI**
```bash
gh skill install wondelai/skills mom-test
```

2. **Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `.github/skills/mom-test/SKILL.md`

### Gemini CLI

1. **Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add wondelai/skills --skill mom-test -a gemini-cli
```

2. **Platform CLI**
```bash
gemini skills install https://github.com/wondelai/skills --path mom-test
```

### Windsurf (Devin Desktop)

**Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `.devin/skills/mom-test/SKILL.md` — The legacy .windsurf/skills/ path still works

### OpenCode

**Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add wondelai/skills --skill mom-test -a opencode
```

### Claude.ai

**Claude.ai**
- Zip the folder and upload it in Settings → Capabilities → Skills

Where a file is given instead of a command, copy the files from the source to that path: https://github.com/wondelai/skills/tree/HEAD/mom-test/SKILL.md

## When to use it
- draft customer interview scripts that avoid leading questions
- replace hypothetical inquiries with questions about past behavior
- deflect polite compliments and uncover actual commitments
- evaluate interview questions using a 7-point diagnostic score

## Example prompts
- Review my B2B customer discovery questions against Mom Test rules
- Users say they want this feature but won't commit. Help me identify feedback bias
- Turn these hypothetical pricing questions into inquiries about existing spending

## Source text · SKILL.md · MIT

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---
name: mom-test
description: 'Talk to customers without leading them using Mom Test rules: discuss their life not your idea, ask about specifics in the past, and talk less. Use when the user mentions "customer interviews", "validate my idea", "users say they want it but dont buy", "leading questions", "The Mom Test", "customer feedback bias", or "interview script". Also trigger when preparing user-research questions, interpreting ambiguous feedback, or designing customer-discovery that avoids false positives. Covers commitment and advancement, avoiding compliments, and extracting signal from noise. For product-market fit, see jobs-to-be-done. For rapid prototype testing, see design-sprint.'
license: MIT
metadata:
  author: wondelai
  version: "1.4.0"
---

# The Mom Test Framework

Framework for customer conversations that won't lead you astray, based on a fundamental truth: everyone is lying to you -- not maliciously, but because you're asking the wrong questions. The Mom Test provides rules for asking questions so good that even your mom can't lie to you.

## Core Principle

**Good customer conversations are about their life, not your idea.** The moment you mention what you're building, people switch from sharing truth to performing politeness. Talk about their problems, their lives, and their existing behavior instead of pitching, and ask about specifics in the past, not hypotheticals about the future. Above all, talk less and listen more.

## Scoring

**Goal: 7/7.** Score a conversation (or interview plan) by the seven-row Quick Diagnostic below: **1 point per row that passes.**
- **6-7** = focused on their life and past behavior, concrete facts captured, a real commitment (time/reputation/money) secured, they talked 80%+, and beliefs got updated.
- **4-5** = some past-behavior facts but leaking into hypotheticals, compliments accepted as signal, or ending without an ask.
- **<=3** = a pitch in disguise: leading questions, opinions and fluff, a polite zombie lead, no learning.

Always state the current score out of 7, name the failing diagnostic rows, and give the specific fix for each.

## Framework Sections

### 1. The Mom Test Rules

**Core concept:** Three rules that make it impossible for even your most supportive loved ones to give you false validation, shifting conversations from opinion-gathering to fact-finding.

**Why it works:** People are unreliable predictors of their own future behavior, so opinions are worthless. Past behavior is the only reliable data and can genuinely inform product decisions.

**Key insights:**
- Rule 1: Talk about their life, not your idea -- never mention your solution until the end, if at all
- Rule 2: Ask about specifics in the past, not generics or hypotheticals about the future
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