# lifecycle-messaging

This skill guides the design of email and SMS messaging, covering consent, delivery, and the split between transactional and marketing messages. Use it when adding a messaging feature or choosing a provider.

- skill · `type=skill` · Claude Code, Codex, Cursor, GitHub Copilot, Gemini CLI, OpenCode · ★ 107
- Author: avelikiy
- License: MIT · policy=mirror · the beginning of the file is at the end of this page
- Source: https://github.com/avelikiy/great_cto/tree/HEAD/skills/lifecycle-messaging/SKILL.md
- Updated: 2026-10-24
- HTML: https://affpapa.org/en/nevibecode/skills/lifecycle-messaging

## What it does

The skill provides a framework for choosing a provider, setting up SPF, DKIM, and DMARC, recording consent, and handling opt-outs. It separates transactional messages from marketing sends, which have different consent rules and sending identities. Email options include Postmark, Resend, and SendGrid; SMS options include Twilio and Telnyx.

When applied, the skill proposes a Messaging section in `docs/integrations/INTEGRATE-{slug}.md`. The section records channels, sending domains, consent, quiet hours, suppression, and the idempotency key. For US application-to-person SMS, A2P 10DLC registration is required before sending. Quiet hours use the recipient’s local time, not the server’s.

## Install

### Claude Code (native platform)

1. **Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add avelikiy/great_cto --skill lifecycle-messaging -a claude-code
```

2. **Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `~/.claude/skills/lifecycle-messaging/SKILL.md` — Copy the whole skill folder; for one project use .claude/skills/lifecycle-messaging/

### Codex

1. **Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add avelikiy/great_cto --skill lifecycle-messaging -a codex
```

2. **Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `.agents/skills/lifecycle-messaging/SKILL.md` — For all projects use ~/.agents/skills/

### Cursor

1. **Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add avelikiy/great_cto --skill lifecycle-messaging -a cursor
```

2. **Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `.cursor/skills/lifecycle-messaging/SKILL.md` — Cursor also reads .agents/skills/ and .claude/skills/

### GitHub Copilot

1. **GitHub CLI**
```bash
gh skill install avelikiy/great_cto lifecycle-messaging
```

2. **Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `.github/skills/lifecycle-messaging/SKILL.md`

### Gemini CLI

1. **Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add avelikiy/great_cto --skill lifecycle-messaging -a gemini-cli
```

2. **Platform CLI**
```bash
gemini skills install https://github.com/avelikiy/great_cto --path skills/lifecycle-messaging
```

### Windsurf (Devin Desktop)

**Manually: put the files in place**
- File: `.devin/skills/lifecycle-messaging/SKILL.md` — The legacy .windsurf/skills/ path still works

### OpenCode

**Skills CLI (Vercel)**
```bash
npx skills add avelikiy/great_cto --skill lifecycle-messaging -a opencode
```

### Claude.ai

**Claude.ai**
- Zip the folder and upload it in Settings → Capabilities → Skills

Where a file is given instead of a command, copy the files from the source to that path: https://github.com/avelikiy/great_cto/tree/HEAD/skills/lifecycle-messaging/SKILL.md

## When to use it
- separate transactional messages from marketing sends
- choose an email or SMS provider
- plan SPF, DKIM, and DMARC for a sending domain
- check consent and suppress opted-out recipients before sending
- document messaging channels in an integration contract

## Example prompts
- Design booking reminders and classify each message as transactional or marketing.
- Plan an email-provider integration with SPF, DKIM, and DMARC.
- Review consent, STOP handling, and quiet hours for US marketing SMS.

## Source text · SKILL.md · MIT

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---
name: lifecycle-messaging
description: Email/SMS lifecycle and deliverability framework for SMB Product-Builder products that send transactional or lifecycle messages (booking reminders, CRM sequences, receipts, win-back). Codifies provider selection (Resend/Postmark/Twilio/SendGrid), domain auth (SPF/DKIM/DMARC), consent and compliance (TCPA, CAN-SPAM, CASL, quiet hours, double opt-in), suppression-list discipline, and the transactional-vs-marketing split. Applied by integrations-engineer and senior-dev whenever a feature sends messages — so deliverability and consent are designed in, not bolted on after the first spam complaint.
when_to_use: |
  Apply when a feature sends email or SMS:
  - integrations-engineer designing a Twilio / email-provider integration
  - senior-dev implementing booking reminders, CRM sequences, receipts, or win-back
  - architect deciding the messaging provider + domain-auth setup for a crm/booking product
  Do NOT apply for purely in-app notifications with no email/SMS leg.
effort: medium
allowed-tools: Read, Write, Grep, Glob, WebFetch
paths:
  - "docs/integrations/**"
  - "docs/architecture/**"
---

# Lifecycle messaging — deliverable, consented, compliant

Messages that don't arrive (poor deliverability) or that arrive without consent (TCPA/
CAN-SPAM violations) are both fatal for an SMB product. This skill makes both correct by
construction. **Design the consent + deliverability posture before the first send.**

## 1. Transactional vs marketing — split them

Decide per message which bucket it is; they have different rules and should use different
sending identities (often different subdomains / providers):

| | Transactional | Marketing / lifecycle |
|---|---|---|
| Examples | receipt, booking confirm/reminder, password reset | win-back, promo, newsletter, nurture step |
| Consent | implied by the transaction | **explicit opt-in required** |
| Unsubscribe | not required (but honor STOP) | **required**, one-click, honored fast |
| Sending domain | `txn.` subdomain | `mail.`/`news.` subdomain |

Never send marketing content on the transactional channel "because it delivers better" —
that's how the transactional domain gets burned.

## 2. Provider selection (pick one, justify it)

- **Email** — Postmark (best transactional deliverability, strict on marketing), Resend
  (DX-first, good default), SendGrid (scale). Default: **Resend for transactional**,
  add a marketing-grade ESP only when lifecycle volume justifies it.
- **SMS** — Twilio (messaging service + sender pool), or Telnyx. Use a Messaging Service,
  not a single number, for scale + failover. A2P 10DLC registration is **required** for
  US application-to-person SMS — register the brand/campaign before sending.

## 3. Domain authentication (non-negotiable for email)

- **SPF** — sender IP authorized in DNS.
- **DKIM** — provider signing key published; messages signed.
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